We first met at coffee and dessert: “He is a fine poet, and an engineer by trade.” In this morning’s paper I read one of his poems, autobiographical, and one to remember. I can see him in it, and also the rest of men but for this: He was the quiet one at the table, yet his quietness had presence. Attentiveness inclined his eyes and posture, not necessarily as a learner. He noted all that was said but he didn’t often comment and never intruded. When he spoke, he was reserved, deliberate. Here was authority in his silence and his speech. It comes out in his poem. His are not the soft thoughts of the speculative metaphysician. They are irrelevantly relevant, much as the metaphor is, the unessential figure that becomes essential resting finally on granite, and as sturdy as a pyramid.