But while life whittles us down, he also carves lessons in riddles on twigs we then collect in baskets woven from love’s loose ends. Like how to wrap arms around a memory. Or how to keep the flaws in the self-portrait, even when the world tells us to paint them out. And how to love the way the air smells when the rain stops, or how puddles reflect rainbows when the sun shines. Or how to cross the bridges we would rather jump off. And when sorrow weighs down pockets like loose change, how to toss each teardrop in the wish of a penny in a fountain. And how to recognize that no matter how much we give to the world, we must not take for granted that we deserve anything in return.