You told me, once when you died you wanted to be eaten by a bear: something used up and on the verge of starving; something that would feed on your for days, savor your marrow. Being a predator is terrifying. You said, you are constantly aware of death. As if that made you brave.
I want to be eaten by something more beautiful: a snow leopard or a tree. Dig deep roots into my hollow spaces turn my blood to branches so I can keep growing, growing until I'm all acorn bones and blue skies. But maybe that's just me being scared of dying.
Maybe that's just both of us being scared in different ways.