There's a picture in the hope chest or in a box buried beneath a pile of unworn clothes at the end of Mom's bed; there's a picture somewhere of me decked out in purple floral footed pajamas And in this picture, which must have been taken one Christmas night- my hair slicked and wet and ponytailed, in this picture I'm sitting in front of a tree that Dad chopped down. a tree intricately and precisely decorated, a tree with one strand of tinsel on each and every branch, a tree from the days we still used the big bulbs of every color that begged to burn your house down. In this picture, in front of that tree, in floral footed purple pajamas- I'm smiling. This year there is no picture. This year there was no Christmas.