Remember to remind yourself that this time was not rendered useless. Remember God’s plan. Remember, it all happens as it happens for a reason - no matter how unreasonable it may feel at the time. Remember , it is not impossible to change to become the person you are meant to be. Remember that also: You. Are. Meant. To. Be. Keep reassuring yourself of this along the way, reminding yourself constantly. Remember, you know it’s easier to stay the same, but you will fly if you believe it’s not impossible for women to have wings