The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The girl loved classical music so resounding When she was eight years old She wanted to learn and practice singing But Papa refused and he did scold
The girl loved classical dance When she was ten years old She wanted to learn tantalizing dance But Papa considered it an art of harlots old
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The girl loved the guitar She found it cool and fine – sounded sweet as wine She wanted to play the guitar But Papa felt it was a waste of time
The girl loved writing poetry When she was eleven years old She did write her first piece of poetry But Papa couldn’t appreciate and was cold
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The girl entered a competition in poetry At her school during the same year She knew she did have a talent for poetry But Papa felt education would suffer
The girl wanted to learn painting And so saved money to buy water colours She had both talent and longing But Papa’s writ over all still towers
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The Girl wanted to dance at her school’s annual Day So she practiced hard to be the principal dancer She hoped she could have her way But Papa was more destructive than a Cancer
The Girl wanted to study fashion designing After she completed her high School She sought her Papa’s permission and blessing But Papa wanted her to study Law which she didn’t find cool
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The girl is now a full fledged adult No more a girl but a very beautiful woman She wants to be treated as an adult But Papa is indeed a stubborn man
The girl has written more than four hundred poems And many more lovely short stories too She wants her Papa to appreciate her poems But Papa doesn’t even know that his girl can write too.
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The girl turned woman started attending music classes Without anyone knowing she had mastered the art It was said her voice was much better than the braying masses But Papa never knew the difference between a note and a ****
The girl stealthily attended a school for traditional classical dance She was so good; her teachers wanted to nurture and promote her She was flooded with offers to dance free lance But Papa didn’t recognise her talents nor encourage her
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The girl turned woman has turned twenty six now But Papa will still check the messages on her phone He tells her he is doing it only out of love Even if she does in despair cry or moan
The girl turned woman is working now But Papa expects her to be in bed by ten He will tell her what to eat and how As well as what to do and when
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The girl turned woman is most misunderstood Her tastes remain unknown and her likes unimportant Never once did Papa even try to learn her favorite food For Papa’s wishes were more important.
The girl turned woman is not permitted to make any decisions on her own Papa chooses her car just as he does her friends and her life partner She can never go out unescorted by family into the town But yet no one can tell her to rebel or make her
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
The girl turned woman is not even allowed to go alone to the Temple For she is made to agree that only Papa knows what is best for her This girl has been conditioned to be meek, submissive, docile and gentle For Papa choose everything for her; even from school bag to life partner
The girl turned woman cannot come out and be independent in this world No one even knows that she has a little heart and someone else lives there But whatever it is she still loves her papa more than anyone else in this world For she doesn’t want to break her Papa’s trust in her.
The Girl child wanted to do things differently But Papa wouldn’t just let her be
Written on the occasion of International Women's Day 2010, I would like to pay my homage to Indian girl children and Indian womanhood.
This write has been subsequently reposted on my current profile here as well as several other online fora....