Love is a tricky thing. It can be received, but not given. It can be lent, and never returned. You are what you love, not who loves you.
It's a great relief to hear: you are what you love, not who loves you Someone else's emotions towards you doesn't define you. Its how you feel and how you act that really matters.
And yes, you may love the wrong thing then, but that's not now. So that doesn't define your future! It's domain is the past. You must let it rule there, or else it will invade your future. You are what you love, not who loves you.
Love life. Love happiness. Love the smell of summer rain. Love the feel of soft grass. Love the chill of snow and the heat of the sun. Charish what you love. Charish you. *You are what you love, not who loves you.