disclaimer* my ex future mother in law is and was an absolute angel in my life – she is on this earth to help and guide people and I will forever be grateful that our paths crossed when they did*
The first time you see your ex future mother in law you will want to cry
You may want a hug and a tearful reunion and to let them know how your really doing
But
You cant do that
That’s not okay because that’s the mother of your former love
They came from them and if you were close to their mother they are closer to their mother
The mother will not be on your side no matter what
She will say that she will always be there for you still but you know that’s a line that shouldn’t be crossed and you wont dare to rock the boat because you still have a secret hope that your life will suddenly come back together and all will be as it was so you don’t rock the boat
You have minute conversations and short hugs when she comes into your work
And likes on each other’s facebook page lets both of you know that the other in on their mind
So when you see your ex future mother in law future give a warm greeting and a smile and try to look beyond their eyes when you tell them that you are really doing okay even though you are still so broken from their child did