Bigger than life, he came into my world and filled a space that did not exist; curious about this young being but open to friendship.

Driving a cool car and loaded with guns that piqued my curiosity. How big are they? Can I shoot one? Teach me about this idea you have.

He came not sure how to move, this new house, this new family, this place quite uncertain but more whole than before; unexpected looking back but glad we were together.

Inviting but wary, what are you doing with that hose? Don’t be afraid young one, I just need to get into that bathroom for one minute…..

Off to fight wars that should not be sending young men to, touching at the airport to see who “gotcha” last; and he won which means he will come back. So glad.

Working hard, making his way in the world and being where he needed to be. Building homes and making life continue; maybe unsure but never wavering on his responsibility and his resolve.

Apart but close in a way not scripted or common, connecting however possible and maintained with care and love.

Standing by my side in union of love and destruction of vow, be sure it’s OK, be sure it will get better, be sure of your own heart; you will find peace.

Full of life and laugh, steadfast in conviction, accommodating in finding a place to meet; giving home a place no matter where or when there is connection.

He is my….big brother.