Is this what you call a family? You cannot demand respect, only earn it. You cannot say you love, only show it. Earning and showing are foreign words to you, but understood to your daughter. A stellar student and beloved friend. Hard working, dedicated, never failing or giving up, a support for the weak and a shoulder for the damaged. These were earned, and now are shown, but remain invisible to you. You see your daughter, but you do not see her. Is this what you call a family? Hatred, disrespect, belittlement, shame? You've neither earned nor shown and have failed to see, you fill my life with **** and misunderstand me. I am angry, yes, but I am angry at you. Angry at your inability to practice what you preach, at your ignorance, criticizing, oblivion to who I am. Open your mind eyes and you will see, close your mouth until it says what is true about me. *******, I don't need you, I'll do this on my own. You brought this on yourself, and now I'm