as childhood slips through our fingers like sand from a broken hourglass we tighten our grip and try to keep all the remnants we can grasp and as every piece slowly vanishes we look up to see how others fare judging superiority to establish order if we could steal from our companions we would not hesitate to add to our pile but that has been neatly ******* so that we get nothing for our trouble though we may lose a friend meanwhile it would be nice if we could realise the hourglass is not destroyed and if we could only see it truly then we would see that this obsession with gaining what we cannot hold is a troublesome mythology because we are seeing upside-down the glass of time may be running low but only because eternity is filling up and as time trickles away wisdom proves the things lost are nothing compared to the things gained