It’s where we are. It gives us something to compare to now. And in that comparison there is some disappointment.
It’s not where we are. It’s where we’re going. If we’re unhappy we can change the situation to something like what we were, or something different.
It’s not where we’re going. It’s how we’re going to get there, the stumbling blocks, the mistakes the wrong turns along the way and what we choose to do with them.
It’s not how we’re going to get there – It’s that we’re in this together. That’s made all the difference.