To love oneself is a mystery. Am I fulfilled or empty? In admiration of others, do I see myself or just a delusion built from my imagination. From what perspective am I best? His or hers? Mine or yours? How does one become content knowing they will never be on the other end as the eye of the beholder? We all accept not knowing the entire truth, being held onto this whim. This whim of mental security. To understand that letting go of what can not be controlled is taking control. We can not control what others see but can control what it is we see and that is the base of truly loving oneself. Because maybe we may never be in complete control. Maybe we may never be on the other end. Maybe we may never understand the perspective of anyone elseโs, but our own. But as the sun rises everyday, that is something that is set in stone. Our mind is a reflection of what we see on the outside. To indulge in oneself is the biggest gesture of passion. We must grasp onto ourselves and hold our spirits tight. To never lose sight of what is in our own control, not others. Because to do it for others is impossible. From one mind to the next, what the world is thinking is simply just a mystery. A mystery of what the truth really is, and what we may never know.