i know that i said i would wait six months i had every intention of keeping that and then he came along. i kept praying that it wasn't to be that God would give me a sign that this man wasn't for me that i should not pursue this. nothing ever came to say no and something said yes. i told myself no dating him until i was stable again. work and school came through for me and i am stable again. just like that. i did not expect this. i did not want this, at first. now, i'm with this man who i am falling for. and i cannot help but want to hide it because of the judgement "i'm disappointing in you" "you said six months" "i thought you were serious" i was and i am i did not expect this to happen i did not want this to happen and you keep holding on to my past and my mistakes to the person i was and not the person i am now haven't i changed enough? i was content to be single and to wait and he came along and everything changed i just want you to be happy for me can't you understand?