Love is like planting a tree. It needs a lot of good taking care of before it even start growing. If you don't water it enough it slowly start to die, but on the other hand if you want it to grow beautifully then you have to put a lot of effort into it example; you have to make sure it get enough to water, you have to make sure it get enough sunshine also give it a bit of fertiliser. It might seem like a really hard jobs but just remember when a tree are fully grow it takes a lot for them to die even if it doesn't get enough water then, it still will grow because of all the care and effort you been putting in from the beginning will help it stay alive. But of course you can buy the one that it's already half grown.. but those ones seem to die much quicker... why? Because you don't know how its been looked after before.