A Japanese practice of aesthetics, broken pottery pieced back together with golden lacquer, the shimmer doing the opposite of obscuring repair; the gold creating vein-like patterns that say, “Look at me, I have survived!” The philosophy is simple: A damaged vessel is still beautiful; a body that has broken is not worthless just because it is a body that has broken.
She and I believe in love the way a Jew and a Christian believe in God. But is it the same God? Was this the same love? Her love believes two bodies must be complete before coming together. My love stands ready with golden lacquer, not present for just a complete whole, but also the broken pieces, the cracks in between. That which is damaged is still beautiful. Let’s learn to heal our faults together and shimmer. Look at us, we have survived!
But sometimes, no matter the effort, interfaith just doesn’t work; we did not survive for no other reason than simply a difference of belief. And now there are new broken pieces, the crimson weeping from fresh cracks is not the gold I was looking for