no journey is ever easy or effortless, and i wish i could tell all these ladies at work that they don't have to follow these silly diet fads or weight loss plans because i understand, miss, ma'am i was there once, overweight and so terribly unhappy i'm only where i am now because of the time and effort i put into it spending money and time on foods and activities that help me better my body and my mind so please don't ask me what food you should eat or what i did to look how i look you need to learn it on your own the want and desire needs to be yours just please don't starve yourself because that's not the way to do it