imagine he was your child your infant imagine your child clinging to and fighting for life breathing on his own after ventilatorβs plug was pulled imagine the doctors deciding against your wishes to let him starve to death depriving him of the strength to hold on and the nourishment to function and grow (miracles do happen, after all) imagine that you have another doctor a second medical opinion telling you there is HOPE but the medical monopoly and the courts say NO! imagine your helplessness and frustration imagine your rage and pain imagine a piece of you dying with your child How do you get over that?