The fear of intimacy isn’t just a fear of ***. It’s the fear of receiving a hug from your best friend. It’s the fear of allowing someone to see you cry. It’s the fear of telling someone about your past. It’s the fear of touch from hands that aren’t your own. It’s the fear of letting someone see you in your underwear. It’s the fear of sharing a bed with someone. It’s the fear of telling someone your likes and dislikes. It’s the fear of saying I love you. It’s the fear of letting someone know you. It’s the fear of being vulnerable.