If I am poetry, then she is prose. But I am mangled, far more than she so to read our lives out like a story, you might suppose the order should be switched.
Don't ask her, though. She'd simply say that I'm right if one is making that comparison - - but then go on to say that it's a false dichotomy, that there's another option that I haven't thought of yet.
Of course, since she's not here, I don't know what that would be.