there's something to be said for digging a grave. together, the clay it binds us. it soils our hands while we work our way down. two and a half feet of soil is more than you'd think it'd be, but together we keep good pace.
and before being laid to rest, one quick round of photo's, all smiles and jokes, deep in the clay. there's something to be said for filling a grave. it's closure of the manual kind. a few quick words, pat the grass back in place and we all move on.