I am ashamed of how I look of how the excessive fat creates stretch marks all over my body I know people throw the "love yourself" type **** but I cant seem to do that I am embarrassed of how the lumps of fat form on my body of how my thick arms cannot fit through the sleeves is it normal to hate yourself for who you are? the tears roll down my cheeks as though they're supposed to all I asked for was for a person to hand me a tissue but am I that invisible?