no matter how liberal we think we are how open minded and free spirited we can only tolerate change to a certain point because change is the calm before the unknown or rather the chaos before the storm you get the picture, anyway, and we become so attached to our lives and our friends and our families But people are not statues they change like the landscape around us they drift away lose faith or find a well of strength that wasn't there before They change like our lives and it will always be inevitable and yeah maybe change can bring ****** times simply tests that we have to take but maybe it will bring adventure friendships wisdom knowledge purpose or love and either way, we have to take it as it comes and be willing to let go of whats already gone