I saw someone once question why it is rare to find a name in a poem. More than that, in fact; they had the audacity to question a poet. They asked them the simple question, "Why do you exclude names, When you quite obviously write about, or for, someone?"
They responded gracefully, I must say, for someone so feisty. Their reasons were commendable, understandable, and concise. When we write about, or for, someone we respect their right To anonymity. Where is the rule that we must always include a name?
I think if I were to be written about in the public domain, not that I ever will be, Mind you. I think it would be nice. Of course I would appreciate the gesture. I would of course appreciate it too if the poet took the brave step of delivering it to me first. I think most of all that would overshadow any invasion of privacy.