I blinked and three days went by. Three whole days I didn't cry. Maybe three or maybe it was four. I don't usually keep track of these things. I just blinked. I just blinked and woke-up. Your memories still dances in my head... A lot. Maybe four or maybe five times a day. I don't usually keep track of these things.
I am more at peace, though the grief still lingers. I hold onto what I can of you. Of the memory of you. I don't want to lose any of it. Your eyes, your laugh, the way you talked with your hands, all of it I cling to like an elixir. It's my elixir to keep the sadness at bay. Holding onto these moments, these sacred moments, so they don't ever fade away.
If your essence is lost to me, I think I might die. Let myself wither. And not a day will go by Where I won't cry for the ditch that is left inside of me, where your memory was. With my elixir all dried-up, not a single day will go by. Not a day where I won't cry. Certainly not three or four. I will start to keep track of these things.
Because that's all I'll have to fill the ditch with. No sand or sea will be quite rich enough to fill this space. This space meant for abstract emotions, not things. We call it our heart, but our heart is just a thing. Just a thing that pumps another thing round and round and round. Just a thing that helps us breathe. A thing that one day stops. It quits on us when we're in the ground. So why would I let this thing hold onto you? I won't.
I'll keep your memory in every space, in my soul. You'll live on and on, and wild and free. You'll live forever, and you'll live in me. I'll keep my grief elixir and fight forgetfulness away. So there will be no ditch. In my soul-space you will stay.
Recently discovered Anis Mojgani. He has inspired me to change-up my rhythms, reformat stanzas, and let go of some of that structure.