I have this problem. When I have to hold the hand of someone who does not accept me they feel dead. It's as if there is no blood going to their head. I don't know if it is because I am nervous or if it's because they know who I am. Their hands feel numb. Lifeless, If you're not gay, I can tell by your hands. I don't know why I have this problem I just know it's always true. When I hold your hand I can tell you are gay without a doubt. You have life to you. Blood in your veins. A shimmer in your eyes. And a smile on your face.