I bet when you were a little girl you bullied the boys that you liked, you teased em and chased em and pinched em, and then went home on your bike.
And now thirty three years later, you still use the same type of ploy, to strike up a conversation, to help you get close to the boy.
You flutter your eye lids to sucker him in, then proceed to make fun and flirt, the occasional pinch and occasional poke, (but not so much that it hurts).
And I think I've worked out why you do this, its part of a test you have planned, to see if the boys really worth it, to see if he will stick around.
So go right ahead and give it your best, I'll take everything you have to give. Cos lucky for you the boy you just pinched, is the one that you're meant to be with.