A cheery wave, always a smile, a look that said that all was well, firm voice, eyes dry: no hint of how much strain it took to try to keep sad thoughts from seeping through. A book is judged by its cover, so are we all. Endure and give no sign of your distress. Be stoic! Leave no clues! Let no-one guess why, in private, so often tears fall. To seem to be the one that others see drains all strength, till unable to pretend one moment more, these lives, exhausted, end. Swift Death brings peace and long-desired release. The public’s shocked, the show will not go on? No, our play is over, this actor’s gone.