Perhaps I have stumbled upon the root of insecurity Of why we judge ourselves so shapely And shame ourselves into uncertainty I think that every day we walk around Comparing ourselves to other peopleβs performances We are not granted back stage passes to their behind the scenes We only see their highlight reel The cut and pasted snapshots of themselves That they have chosen to present to the outside world All of the bloopers and uncut scenes we are only capable of seeing In ourselves -are in other people, invisible. Itβs not fair. To compare a perfectly edited version of a person To another whose flaws are all too visible. This is why we feel inadequate.