abuse is such a strong word to use
just like the words
love
and
hate
we throw those words like we throw away trash
we use them so easily that they start to loose their meaning

abuse-"he took away my phone because I told him to *******"

love-"I've never met him or even talked to him"

hate-"my mom won't let me go to a party to get myself all messed up and possibly *****"