If you must, Then hold him tightly; If you must, Then pray 'til your heart's content; Whisper unto him your sweetest desires, Beside either Raging or dieing fires; Hold fast his irises in your memory: Brown as rolling rock, Green as that Last Homely House west of the Moutains... Adore the man, then, Purely, honestly, hotly, With every muscle and hair and bead of sweat Your body can bear; Love the man, If you absolutely must, And by all universal means, Sing to him a song as gentle As the very breath he breathes-