Before the storm, after they are gone, giving the cold shoulder, under the fallen boulder, under blooming spring, idle wandering, watching them sleep, heartwrenching grief, going home from work, dinners with family, reading that book again, watching that movie, eating on the sofa, cooking a meal for one, afternoon paintings, written ramblings, browing for random words, clearing cluttered drawers, on a crowded city street, in a random group meet, nod when an acquaintance greets, but,