Is the priority because no one is looking out for me but me and it's hard for me to look out and see people I wanted to like and hate them See corrupt manipulators and just accept it Like somehow that makes it harder But if for some reason you find yourself stranded in a rock forest with little water or provisions and only the merciless sun beating down on you as a companion it does no good to say I am at a lovely beach under a canopy That doesn't help you find a way back home You have to look out and acknowledge this harsh hostility and try to navigate it as best you can accept that there is harshness and rocks and a burning sun and you stand a chance to stay alive