And I suddenly realized...
To not care anymore, you will hurt others;
But to care too much, you will hurt yourself;
You love with your brain, you hurt him;
You love with your heart, he hurts you;
You speak without thinking, they turn on you;
You think of others, they walk all over you;
You want what’s best for you, you’re selfish;
You put others before you, they take advantage of you;

You have to find a happy-medium. For you but for others at the same time. You are going to get hurt. You have to get back up and do it all over again. In the end, you gain more knowledge. It’s called life.