What is your goal, your dream? Is it to be with him or her? Is it to have a certain job? Is it to own a certain item? Is it to pertain a certain position?
Well you know what, advice I have for you? Don't just sit at home and talk about yours goals, and your dreams. Chase them! Don't sit in some fantasy world where everything is perfect, Walk out into the concrete jungle and mold the life you wish the obtain. Don't let other discourage. Don't let others cause you the feeling of aching to give up! There are billions of people on this earth, and you are going to let a couple alter your mind set?
Go out into that concrete jungle, Don't just dream your life, live it. Because before you know it, You will regret not taking that chance...