Dear Parents Teach her to read before you train her to cook she might create her own recipes and write her own books teach her to love herself before she loves a man she will nurture her soul in ways no one else can teach her to earn before you teach her to request she will learn to make her own money to build and invest teach her to understand her body before she aims to please a man she will embrace her sexuality in ways men won't undertsand teach her to be independent before she seeks help she will always find strength in and of herself let her know that she is power and that God is her source she will become an icon , an obstinate force.