Why does everyone around me not notice the obvious secrets that they are trying to hide? I want to tell them about each other, but will they actually listen to me? Of course not. I'm just a little *****, ****, ***** attention seeker, someone trying to ruin their relationships for my own gain, for myself. Now if they actually looked or cared about me, they would realize that I'm not trying to ruin their relationships but helping them to be better.