I am afraid that we can't coexist. For I am a writer and you an actress, and the one thing between us is quite simply this: The two, dear, just don't mix
Now, a writer is one who likes to make stories, creates onsets and ends, crafts his dramas from worries. He sees the whole world connected by string; he knows that one simple pluck could change everything.
Some call it 'fate,' and it's called 'life' by a lot but amongst us creators it is always called Plot. Every itch has a reason, each whisper a whim, within any characters past lies a reason to win.
But the actor can only see from their own point of view. They must master their character; how they think and what they'd do. They expend all their energy trying to be someone else while the writer's too busy trying to figure out himself.