I used to have a lot of bartender friends. Even tipped them when I could. Then I stopped missing her. That girl I thought I had met in a former life. That line works great by the way. I used to know a lot of drug dealers on a first name basis. Still do, I guess. But I haven't memorized their numbers. Everything's a distraction. Still I prefer to hang around chefs. Get in with them and you're set. My ex used to say, "a good meal can be better than ***." I'd have to agree with her there. In the long run, if you calculate the cost of dinner, *****, endless packs of cigarettes, diapers, engagement rings, plan b pills, condoms, apology flowers, razor blades, caffeine, kitty litter, mortgage payments, and ****, doing the party's dishes after gorging on some homemade hueso de chuleton al chimichurri is a lot cheaper.