"I'm so in love with her." "Her smile is what men, from decades ago, sang of." "I saw her across a room, and my taint and lips caught fire." "I wanted to show her everything I could before she decided to go." "My heart sang, instead of my ****, for the first time."
"I'm in love with her."
"I couldn't stop watching her drink from a glass which i knew was full of straight whiskey. She is so strong." "Her eyes were so bright, i felt them hold me. I must be so cliche"
"I wanted her kiss. I could already tell how soft her lips would be."
"I wanted her." "I love her."
I use her as a pronoun, but it could be either. I just felt like her fit here.