experience teaches giving lessons in cynicism life is hard so easy to help others but who is there to help me? must learn to leave intervention to professionals my investments need returns my heart needs to see improvements but helpees turn the page and move on when helpers purposes don’t serve them devaluating and discarding friendship loyalty’s load laid along the road my objectives proved time wasted people are who they are let them live their own lives and walk their own paths they’re going to anyway must choose wisely find out what people want discern a willingness to work hard towards self proclaimed goals act as a guide step in only when necessary walk away when warranted and reserve my resources for me and my friends