get through the day just one day at a time and if that seems like too much too all at once all loud and in your face go by seconds and then minutes and then hours make the in and out of air in your lungs a manageable thing
but there is no clear map when it comes to survival because that looks different for everybody and a numbered list could fill all the blank pages but wonβt you think of the trees
and when my depression grabbed me by the throat my feet left the ground as the blueprints left my hands the plan that i had planned all neat and laid out but an addled mind does not care about that because it is too busy screaming and smacking itself against the floor
and sometimes survival looks like staying up until it is almost morning again so you can rock back and forth in a nest of your blankets soaked in tears and sweat sobbing till the line between heaving breaths and puking becomes more than blurred because how do you tell your family and friends that you want to die because it all hurts so much
and sometimes survival looks like eyes sunken and glazed shaking hands around a mug of tea or coffee with alcohol optional but not much can mask the acidic taste of panic that comes with your heart continuing to hammer against your ribs
and sometimes survival is all smiles and laughing until you cry and sloppy kisses and laying in the middle of a road on a dead end street with the person you love most and your hands are almost touching and they are so beautiful and you are alive and it feels so good and you are alive and you are alive and you are alive and you are past the survival and you are LIVING