How I wish we didn't have to be here How I wish this nightmare would end How I wish I could see Andy walking With his mother and holding her hand
How I wish all the love he inspired That now lives in the tears we all cry Had the strength and the power to raise him To stand at his proud father's side
How I wish I could say he's out playing With some bugs he found on the street And he'll be here soon, any minute now Running fast on fast growing feet
How I wish I could find words to tell you The sorrow I feel in my heart How I wish there was some way to comfort The lives that have been torn apart
How I wish that I had the power To change that one tragic day But none of us can that's for certain No matter how hard we all pray
So all I can do is mourn with you And help you however I can To remember the love and the beauty Contained in that one little man
To remind you how lucky we all were To have had him in our lives for a while To cherish each moment he gave us And to hold in our hearts every smile
For now Andy lives on in our memories And we should use those memories wise To enjoy every moment of living And to live like that innocent child
My great nephew, Andy, was killed in a car accident at the young and innocent age of 8. I was requested to give the eulogy and this is a poem I wrote on route to the funeral that I read as part of his eulogy.