At night when I lay in bed I hope that you wil hold me and whisper everything will be all right, everything is all right. I hope that the child we share cares less about the meaning of words like mother, father but more about love, justice, equality. I wish for our daughter to always have the courage to speak her thoughts and feelings but also have the wisdom to know when to say them and how to say them. I wish for our son to only raise his fists in congratulations and to take both winning and defeat graciously. I want our daughter to know that she can like pink but she doesnβt have to like pink and our son to know he can like football but he doesnβt have to like football. I want our children to have dreams and fear to lose them, to know that the grass is not always green on the other side, to know struggles so that they may overcome but to never know despair. When you hold me at night I want to have faith in us, in them, in everyone.