Once we begin to accept what we believe to be the "normal" mannerisms of another we sub-consciously set standards for ourselves that are not humanly attainable-
like so, we begin to believe in fate and God.
slowly but surely we put faith into things so far out of reach
which eventually shrinks us and limits us on the endless possibilities of this here universe.
One will easily contract the idealism that there are specific attributes for a group of people, or a set of ideas.
we are blinded by life and turn socially unaccepted beliefs into acceptance.
kind heart or no heart, accept nothing until it proves to match your values and your morals.
and even when acceptance is accepted for what it is think harder about when it was acceptable to accept such a thing.