" Are you going out tonight"? He stares and takes another bite. The meal is over .. the kids in bed. Still a lot of things unsaid.. I'm frightened to ask.. And he's frightened to say.. But ... I think we both know that he is gay... Whilst out on my birthday.. And over the meal. He said" l'm gay" So how did I feel? I've met a great guy and we're engaged!" I threw a wobbly and went into a rage.. Life can be funny and sometimes so sad.. My husbands a queen but he's also their dad!!