Love burns you --even when we describe it as something positive a burning love so to speak we are still describing destruction although not all destruction is bad such as the destruction of your flawed coping mechanisms and the walls you build around your vulnerability after the last brush with love melted your wings and sent you plummeting into the icy sea below where the cold helped your heart come together once more and all thatβs left now is to destroy the shell of your former self with fire.