black and white and french grey can’t be put on the same spectrum

depending on who you ask. if you asked me I’d say french grey 

can go somewhere in the middle, but then does the spectrum end in white 

or black?

if two people met who had their black and white at opposite ends of the spectrum,

would they be able to face each other’s darkest parts and meet back at french grey?

or would their french greys end up between the two, and push them back

out of the clouds and into the abyss