we lay in bed and tell each other which forests we want to carve our names into, which branches we hope to knock down, or grow into, which places we want to make our own money, our own homes, and our own. I tell you I don’t know - you tell me you don’t know - we go on to tell each other all of the things we think might be the things we know. I trust you. and I have to trust that you trust me to do the things we lay out on maps. to follow and veer, and when the engine stalls, to let go. I told him, “We’ll have a corgi and a husky” and you told me, “Plan A is to become an astronaut” and I tell them over and over thank you for letting me stay the night.
something universal about the way we share what we want to do with other people. something universal in trusting in this whole process and forgiving yourself when it goes wrong.