"hey, can you talk?" because for about a year a single phrase was said well over a thousand times, and during a couple months not a word was said. "hey" was all that was needed, and now after a month we are talking again, and a single phrase was brought up, the same phrase as before. "i don't know..." I'm just curious what you mean, the first time you said it recently was something new, I just want you to know that when i say it, it still stands true.